Don’t be jealous of your ex-boyfriend/husband.

by on April 11, 2010

The key to the long term success of any relationship is that each partner feels both free and secure. There’s nothing more important in a relationship that both partners are willing to stay in not because they feel they have to, or are afraid of what they will lose if they call it quits, but because they truly want to.

No guy likes to be smothered or controlled by anyone, especially their girlfriend. This is why it is important to manage your jealousy if you are trying to get your ex boyfriend back.

While jealousy might have played a part in your relationship coming apart, let’s not let it be a part of why you don’t get back with your ex.

If your ex sees you lurking around every corner, or giving him stern looks every time he looks at or talks to another girl, then he will probably try to avoid you. Your jealousy will make every situation with him uncomfortable, and your chances of winning back his love will be slim.

Instead, be strong and confident with yourself. If you know that he made a mistake by dumping you then show him by being the bigger woman. Eventually the tides of jealousy will turn and he will be the one trying to get back your love.

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